Be interested in other people

Asking questions and being curious about others is downright alluring. Egomaniacs and self-serve talkers are boring. I’m already snoozing just thinking about the few of them I know. They can put a room to sleep talking about the minutiae of their work life or recent holiday. I secretly pray I never get sat next to them at a dinner party.
A critical side note is, you learn nothing when you are the one talking. So ask people about themselves. They will love you for it and you can learn a lot. Being an asker makes you more attractive and smarter.